Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Last-Minute

I hate the term "last-minute."
LAST-MINUTE SHOPPING.
LAST-MINUTE SHIPPING PRICES.
LAST-MINUTE GIFT IDEAS.
LAST-MINUTE HOLIDAY RECIPE IDEAS.
LAST-MINUTE SHOPPING SOLUTIONS.
Those are some of the subjects I received in my email this morning.
It implies that the person (usually I) wasted all the time before that last minute and now he/she is rushing around like a crazy person trying to finish everything up and giving no personal thought to anything.
Can't they come up with a nicer word? A more positivie connotation? Something that doesn't imply 360 days of leisure and bon bons, and instead acknowledges teaching and driving (did you hear my 3-month old car has over 6500 miles on it already??) and grocery shopping and meetings and obligations and parenting and laundry and working and sewing and work parties and church and kid parties and just a teeny bit of laziness?
I feel so PRESSURED when I read those words. I feel like such a procrasinator. I feel like a failure in the great Martha Stewart clone contest. I am ALMOST done shopping. Almost. Just one or two little things to get. I made several gifts this year and knew what I wanted to buy for the others. Most cards are in the mail. All to-be-mailed gifts are on their way. There is a very sugary gingerbread house on my dining room table. And some gingerbread waiting to be frosted. I'm getting there....I'm just a little slower than others. And can I say a big "thank you" to Amazon Prime for their 2-day shipping?!
Today I am rebelling. Jammies all day, Christmas movies and popcorn, apple cider on the stove, and two boys home with me all day long.
Joshie took some pictures of our Christmas tree from underneath


Kurie is taking it easy this holiday season...

packages last week waiting to be sent

two cute little trees we made for our favorite piano teacher EVER.

Both boys sang in the Christmas Cantata last Sunday



Joshua and his best friend Jason sugared up themselves and everything around them while working on their gingerbread houses



Joshua and I went to the Kennedy Center to see a play

Dave was the ringmaster at the annual Boy Scout party and gift exchange. He's so awesome at that kind of thing.
And on a final note, I feel the need to address the whole "saying Merry Christmas" thing. I don't know why, but I do. There has been a bit of a hullabaloo about stores and organizations not saying Merry Christmas anymore. Honestly, "Happy Holidays" does not bother me. I feel like even for Christians, with New Year's Eve the very next week, it is not inappropriate to wish someone well on both holidays. If a stranger says "Happy Holidays" to me I take it as a nice gesture. He/she doesn't know me. They don't know if I'm Christian or not and it is simply a polite greeting or farewell at this time of year. I don't assume they are trying to push their religion or lack of religion on me. I do say Merry Christmas to people. This time of year is about Christ for me and I definitely want to take the opportunity to let people know that. I also realize that many public places (schools, for example, I just learned from a friend today) are purposefully avoiding any mention of the Christian holiday while promoting other religions or non-religious celebrations. That's wrong and I encourage people to be a voice in their own communities and situations. But I also encourage "you" to be gracious in your meetings with others and assume the best rather than the worst in people. A "thank you" and "Merry Christmas to you" or yes, even, "Happy Holidays" is a good way of showing the love of the Savior whose birth we are celebrating this month.
God bless each one of you and Merry Christmas. :)

Monday, December 12, 2011

'Tis the Season....

There's always a lot to do in December and we've had a blast the last week or so. Here is photo evidence:

The boys started off the month with a new Lego Star Wars advent calendar. What says Christmas season more than Boba Fett's Slave-1?
Joshua was in a play at church called Anton's Christmas. He played a beggar and a caroler. Nick did the lighting and sound for the production, which was made up of homeschoolers from our church. Have I mentioned lately how much I love our church??


are these not the most adorable little waifs you've ever seen?
 I got to go to a Moms' Night Out with some fabulous friends and fellow homeschoolers. We went to The Melting Pot in Annapolis, which is a fondue restaurant. I ate more melted cheese that night than I think I've eaten the entire year...


We began decorating the house:

Dave and Nick got free tickets to the Army-Navy game. Has anyone noticed how my husband has a knack of ALWAYS getting tickets to things that are in demand? The NLCS playoffs back in the early 90's (Go Braves!), the President in Iraq and Germany (technically he was working, but still), the Carolina-Duke game at Cameron Indoor.....well, this was no different. Got a call from out of the blue, and the next day he's at the game. Too bad Army lost, but they had a GREAT time.
While those two were at the game, Joshua and I went caroling with some friends from church. It was a fun night-we brought fruit baskets to the "listeners" and had a great time visiting in the van as we drove around. We went to the homes of some of the elderly and shut-ins from church to brighten their evening. There were around 50 total, and we split up into groups to reach about 15 different homes.


We did finally get a tree! We always go to the same place and are so happy with their trees and their service. It's a little local farm down the road from us. Gorgeous day out for tree shopping!


We had our soon-to-be Eagle Scout tie the tree down. He tied a half-hitch or something like that, if you're wondering.
Which brings us to this week! Lots more fun on the agenda so stay tuned for the wrap up. :)

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Happy Birthday

Happy birthday to my beautiful daughter. I miss you every day. I am so glad you get this time to spend with Danna and make memories together. I wish I was decorating the house for you this morning and getting out the "You are Special" plate but know that you are on my heart all day today.
My prayer for you today is the same as every day, my sweet girl-
May you know the everlasting joy that comes from the Father and prevails over every worldly thing, whether it be happiness or sorrow. That you would earnestly seek God in all your endeavors and that you would see the Lord's purpose in your life as you grow older and head out on your own. 
"Listen to advice and accept instruction, and in the end you will be wise. Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails." Proverbs 19:20-21